True Healing!

Healing is to overcome excessive pain.
Why is it needed for everyone?
We can know the true sense of healing only when we have experienced extensive pain.
There are many ways in which one can get healed.
Over coming from misery is healing. In normal sense, when one gets hurt, we apply medicine and say that the wound would get healed.
Have you ever thought of the true meaning behind it?
What is a wound? It can be loss of flesh, or a scratch or loss of a limb or loss of a family or loss of a country. Any temporary loss of materialistic substance can be called as a wound. And anything that we use to apply to alleviate or overcome from it is the medicine and the transitory state from loss to gaining it back is healing.
Is it too confusing?
Yea, some concepts are always confusing when you dig deep!
But let us take an example to make things more clear.
My friend, who passed out of college, said that he had a love failure.
It is a wound that he acquired after he lost his imaginary beloved fairy valentine!
I went and talked to him asking him about his parents and he started narrating me his story. He said that he had a wonderful relationship with this imaginary lady for 3 full years. She used to talk to him, come in his dreams, and be with him all the time, Blah Blah!
This is why people say women are the cause for existence and also the cause for the end!
Any ways, lets get back to where we started.
My friend said she left him and got married to some other wired person. After that incident he had a very uncanny feeling that kept reeling in his mind. After that incident he could not withstand the sight of any women, probably became like Devadas, “ only Paro and no one else”.
He used to hate every woman. Then I asked him do you hate your mother and sister too.
He said they were exceptions in this category. He said he doesn’t like to live any more. He is going to take sainthood and become a priest. Nowadays the solution to any problem is sainthood.
Insane people!
Lets analyze this situation.
Here my friend has experienced acute pain, which has goggled him to reel into the future state of priest hood. So his past was not healed but had manifested and projected into an imaginary pleasant state of peace and sanity, which he feels he can gain through saint hood.
He is not able live in the present. He will be able to live in the present only when his past is healed. He should be happy about the days that he had good time with that lady. He should realize that nothing is permanent in this world and it is ever changing. Only then his past starts getting healed and he does not go into the future and stays in the present.
He should accept the past as is and always stay in the present. When this happens, healing begins in his life and he starts getting into a state of peace with himself. At this moment, true healing occurs and people start living in the present reality in eternity. Then the current worlds filled with miseries become a world of heaven for them.
He can achieve this state only when he starts listening to his past and not snub it aside. Some people snub it and try to shut it but ultimately it emerges with more vicious ness and then takes control of their lives. If you start listening to your past and start correcting and fixing them and start staying in the present, true liberation begins along with true healing and this becomes the ladder between heaven and earth!!!!